Nice guys always.....want to finish with ejaculation.

   So let's talk about it!! The good old "nice guys" . You know the ones who whine about being friend zoned by women . Are they really nice?? Well they sure don't seem so nice when things don't go where they planned for their niceness to take them. I really think it's a mission, yes let's call it that, "Mission Mr. Nice Guy". You know how when you wanted that toy , and played nice with mommy to be rewarded with it.

   The sad thing is these type men have played this role so long, they actually have convinced themselves that they mean well. They call women users when it doesn't develop into a romance. Mr. Nice Guy really thinks a few dates and wiping his prey's tears away, seals the deal.  Newsflash Mr. Nice Guy, a woman still has the right to decide if you are what she wants. Do you know how many nice guys we encounter on a day to day bases?? So should we give all nice guys a shot?? Oh if we did that we would be "sluts" and a "ho" then. Guess what, it takes more than you being nice for a woman to want a relationship with you. The bag boy at the local supermarket is nice too, should she give him a shot. Did it ever occur to you that there are other things less attractive about you? Yea you pay for meals, and answer her calls at two o'clock in the morning, but is your apartment clean when she comes over, is your hygiene up to her standards, are you outgoing, do you want kids, are you physically her type, can you cook? etc.

   See I have come to realize these type men think they are the only ones who can have preferences.  They can turn down the fat chick, the flat chested chick, the chick with no car or the chick with no sense of humour. While a woman's only preference should be that you treat her nice.  No sir, we have more preferences than you opening doors and taking care of the check at dinner. Then these guys show their insecurities and how much of a dick they are by trying to make women feel bad for choosing someone more attractive than they are,when men are some of the most shallow beings ever. Just look at their friend list and the women they follow on social media.

   So you feel used?? In order to feel used, somewhere in your mind you assured yourself that you were going to gain something.  What was that?? Because if you are just a naturally nice guy it should just be in your nature to do nice things, and to be a nice person. What you are admitting is that you put in effort to be nice for some type of reward. So you used your "Nice Guy" act to get something you never got.  Who's fault is this?? Certainly not the woman, she held her end of the situation, she was nice in return right?? What more did you want Mr. Nice Guy? Let's stop beating around the bush and be real with ourselves here. You and I both know you have fantasized and even pleasured yourself to the thoughts of your "Nice Guy Pay Out " with a little backpack to boot. When that didn't happen "Mr. Who I Really Am" came home.  In most of these cases women are very honest about their feelings and lack there of, but you keep showering her with gifts and attention hoping someday she has a change of heart, or shall we say hormones.

   See this whole thing is the equivalent to women who have sex with men in hopes of him having a change of heart. We take take take, any and everything knowing love will never be on the table. This friend zone thing would never be an issue with nice guys if women were built like them. What I mean by that is, men can have sex with a woman and have not an ounce of true intentions and or full attraction. Women not so much, we can't go there if we aren't feeling it. Truth is ,you would be okay if nice guys could have sex with her even if a full relationship is out of reach. But since all bets are off the table your ego can't deal. You used yourself to get something that is not your right. Thinking all you had to do was be the "Nice Guy" .

   Well mommy seen right through you kid, she knew you were being a good little boy just to get that toy you wanted. She knew just as soon as you had it in your possession the act would over .  Soon as you were bored with it you were gonna put your "Mr. Nice Guy" persona back on, and work on getting a new toy.  We are onto you "Mr.Nice Guy" and the gig is up.